How time flies....

I can't believe that I am writing my last blog post in Australia. Tomorrow morning, I will be leaving Perth and heading to New Zealand. I expect that Monday will be a very lonely day, literally travelling all day with my thoughts and missing all of my friends here.

I feel that I have grown a lot over the last 8 months and I will leave Perth with some fabulous experiences and lifelong friends. I have realized that I haven't been too great with posting blogs regularly and I am going to try to improve on the frequency once I'm home.....I just need some catchy suggestions for the new name!

I hope that you have enjoyed my infrequent posts while I've been here in Australia! You will have to look forward to my future travels around the world & updates on the big move to Toronto!

Love you!
Deidre Xx

 

Why I dislike ward nursing not pediatrics...

In previous emails I have vented about my dislike for pediatrics but I have discovered that it's not pediatrics that I dislike but ward nursing in general. Last week I was suckered into working another pediatric shift, I figured that I would give it another try and see if I just had a bad shift last time. Apparently they were desperate and successfully guilted me into working. I was told that it was the hospitals "infant" ward so despite my initial hesitation agreed to work the shift.

When I got to the ward it was chaotic and all of the nurses were very apologetic....I later found out why! I began the shift asking multiple questions asking about the night shift routines, patient load, and breaks (one of the most important things). I was given my patient load (5 infants) which was an abnormally high number for the ward because someone called in sick. The shift started and I was lucky that 4/5 of the patients had a family member sleeping over. The shift flew by with multiple issues....one of the babies was having continuous seizures and bradycardias which required vital signs every 5 minutes. The ward coordinator was finally able to find another nurse to provide constant monitoring to the infant at 4AM so I could go on a quick break....thank goodness for that!

Some things that I dislike about ward nursing is that there is no time to pay attention to details like in the intensive care. I didn't have the luxury of completing a full head to toe assessment every 3-4 hours and had to settle for a pulse rate, respiratory rate, and temperature when the patient woke up. I also had many medications to give and needed to find another nurse to check the medication, sometimes reconstitute it, and check armbands. I was really missing the lovely pharmacy team back home, I felt like I was either drawing up medications or checking them the entire shift. There was one patient who was alone, a 14 month old battling gastroenteritis who slept well overnight and bottle fed every two hours to maintain hydration. Her room was disasterous when I came on shift, empty bottles everyone, sticky floor, dirty linens, no supplies, and in dirty clothes. I could have spent my whole shift or at least a very big portion of it organizing/cleaning. Unfortunately, that couldn't have been my priority but when 7AM rolled around I was tempted to stay later to do the "little things" that I had been wanting to do all night.  I had my big realization that it wasn't the pediatric aspect of nursing that I dislike but it was the fact that I couldn't do all of the "little things" that I have always done for my patients and their families.

I feel very fortunate that I have had some diversity in my career, every shift either reinforces my love for neonates or teaches me something new. I think that my change of heart had a lot to do with the 14 month old patient, when she woke up in the morning she was so happy to see that someone was there and her big brown eyes lit up with excitement.... Her smile made all of my previous negative feelings towards pediatrics disappear.

Australian Music Festivals...an experience like no other!

This past weekend I attended the last and one of the best festivals of the summer...Future Music (40,000 tickets were sold). I have been lucky enough to attend 4 festivals this summer and every experience has been different and interesting, to say the least. The day started with pre drinks and visiting around noon, and we headed to the venue around 1330. For this festival the venue was in Joondalup, which is a 40 minute train ride from the city. I was with my friends, Jake & Dan and many 18 year olds....we felt old.

Jake & I venturing into the foam party :)

The day continued and we had a great time, and some of you were fortunate enough to get text messages and voice mails before I ran out of phone credit :) My favourite performance was Mark Ronson & the Business International. Here is my favourite song at the moment:

Hope that you enjoyed the post and felt like you have an understanding of what Australian music festivals are like and why I enjoy them so much! 

I've been replaced...

The Kikister loves Skype dates, she always has to be a part of the conversation...

It's 2130 and past her bedtime, being cuddled like a human baby....

Just too hilarious not to share....Mom and baby Kiki!

Dedication to my family & friends (old & new)....

First of all, I need to apologize for the lack of posts recently. I have been preoccupied the last couple of weeks; physically, mentally, and emotionally.

Recently, I have moved into a new house with my good friend Charmaine and my new friend Sarah. It has been an absolute treat living here with the girls and I feel very welcomed in their home. I have been invited to participate in their workouts, offered rides to and from work, included in their group meals, and comforted when I have been feeling down. Another reason why I am so appreciative of Charmaine's friendship is that she has introduced me to her fabulous circle of friends (Ellie, Christie, Jess, Nikki, Emma, and Andrea). They never make me feel like an outsider, unless their making fun of my accent. I have to specifically thank Ellie for being my partner in crime and for always being there for me. It's amazing how your presence can drastically alter my mood (for the better). You all need to know that I appreciate the support that you have given me the last couple months.

I need to reinforce that this doesn't mean that I don't miss my friends and family back home. I think about you every single day that I am here. There are certain songs, smells, and sayings that make me miss you more. I take comfort in the fact that I will be seeing you again and I look forward to hearing about life back home (via email, text messages, and phone calls). There is one thing for certain is that I would be a basket case without Skype. I love seeing your smiling faces and feel uneasy when I haven't had a recent "Skype date".

Tonight I was lucky enough to Skype with Meghan, Dave, Cathy, Kaleigh, Myla, and Payton. They were waiting for Sarah & Tyler to come home with Carter Leon Smith, their new baby boy. I can't believe how much all of the girls have changed since October and I was happy that they still remembered me. I couldn't help but cry after I hung up with them, I wished that I was there awaiting Carter's arrival with them.

I've found myself feeling more emotional these days and whenever I have needed to talk to one of my besties you have been there for me! I would like to specifically thank my Mom, Nanny, Amanda, Sammi, Jocelyn, and Erin who have always dropped everything and anything to be there for me. I have woken you up at horrible hours, interrupted you at work (sometimes even between patients), kept you awake after a night shift, interrupted parties, caused you to be late for nights out and delayed many meals. I appreciate all of you so much....

I am lucky to have all of you in my life! I definitely feel like I have love....

Sunset at Shark Bay

Here's one of the many photos from my trip to Monkey Mia with Camp Quality (where Laughter is the Best Medicine and positivity is encouraged). Expect more stories and photos very soon.....

Learning EVERYDAY....

I continue to be thankful for all of my experiences here in Australia. I am constantly learning things about myself and relationships with others. After 5 months of being away from family and friends I find myself searching for and trying to create meaningful and reliable relationships. 

I feel that I have been successful in finding a great group of female friends but I have been failing over and over again when it comes to finding a reliable male friend. 

I have been brainstorming reasons why I seem to have such difficulty in this department, and this is what I've come up with so far:

1. I'm always trying to find a replacement for my best male friend, Miguel. I miss him so much and I find myself drawn to people with similar qualities and interests (brutal honesty, caring, nurturing, reliable, play & watch sports, enjoy a fun night out). The male friend's that I do meet can never seem to meet my expectations. I need to stop comparing, especially before I return home. I know that when I return, Miguel will be moving forward in his life as a partner (with Erin).  
2. I believe that most people have good intentions and are honest (bad  actually horrible when travelling).
3. I open up to people too soon and have a problem with verbal diarrhea.
4. Most importantly, I have let people around me have a significant effect on my mood and emotions. Over the course of my life, I have been dependent on guys and have been crushed when they haven't met my expectations (realistic or not).

I plan to change my behaviour TODAY... I have acknowledged my difficulties and that to me is an accomplishment in itself. I will try to move forward and depend less on others and more on myself. 

Any suggestions or comments are more than welcomed :) 

13 Almondbury...Where you are never alone!

I was feeling under the weather this evening and homesick. There is nothing that I would want more than hearing my mom complain about me potentially spreading my germs to her but still making me a big pot of tea and a Vitamin C fizzy drink. Unfortunately, I couldn't have my family come to my rescue and make me feel better, but I have my housemates!

For those of you that don't know, I am currently living with 8 other people in a very cozy 5 bedroom house. Currently, my housemates are Sarah & Emma (Ireland), Michal & Krystina (Czech Republic), Anwen & Melanie (England), Michael & Carly (Scotland). Over the last couple months I have been getting to know them; I have learnt about their hometowns, jobs, families, & friends.

Tonight, we spent the evening in the living room watching television and chatting. We then got on the subject of our hometowns and we each took turns showing each other our homes on google maps. It was awesome to see where my housemates lived and I suddenly forgot that I wasn't feeling great and really enjoyed my evening!

Technology really is an amazing thing....I don't know what I would do without it here is Australia. Special thanks to my housemates and technology for making me feel better this evening.

The Game by Neil Strauss

In a very brief summary, the book details the journey of how Neil Strauss a.k.a. Style goes through the various stages of becoming a Pickup artist. He also narrates his success with women and the spreading of the seduction community itself, which I found very educational. 

You might be asking why would any woman read something like this??? I asked myself that question multiple times when I was reading "The Game". I found myself asking more questions like: How can I tell the difference between someone is really and truly genuinely interested in me and someone who is playing "The Game"? How I can let myself trust guys after discovering what they are capable of? I even questioned my friend who lent the book to me, I didn't understand why he wanted me to know all of this information!

In the end, the message that I choose to take away from "The Game" is this: 

"We have this idea that love is suppose to last forever but love isn't like that, it's a free flowing energy that comes and goes when it pleases. Sometimes it stays for life, other times it stays for a second, a day, a month, or a year. So don't fear love when it comes simply because it makes you vulnerable. But don't be surprised when it leaves either, just be glad you had the opportunity to experience it. "

"Scare Yourself Sexy" in Surfer's Paradise

I arrived back in Perth late last night after a fabulous weekend celebrating the lovely Emma's 21+6 birthday and Andrea's stagette (a.k.a. Hen's night). The theme for the stagette was "Scare yourself Sexy" as stated in earlier posts. We all dressed up as scary characters....like "Malice in Wonderland", Devils, Vampires, & Spiders and headed to a dinner theatre called Dracula's.

The show was called Black blood it was a retro comedy show, featuring vampyre themed variety acts. There was lots of spandex, black lace and fangs. The show was hilarious and entertaining....the food could have been better and the drinks were watered down. There is no way I could have consumed a fishbowl of margarita, 3 martinis, and a cocktail without feeling something other than the whooshing of fluid in my stomach!

After the show we went to a bar where we danced the night away and received lots of attention in our outfits. This weekend has encouraged me to start planning and organizing my sister's upcoming stagette. I know that she will not be interested in the games or dressing up but I think I may encourage a weekend trip to Las Vegas! 

Decisions, decisions...

I am almost ready to go to sleep and I have to make a decision regarding future travel plans by tomorrow afternoon, the latest! As I was waiting for my yoga class to begin this evening I received a text message from my friend Ellie informing me that there is a spot for her friend's hen's night (stagette) in Queensland.

We would be going to Surfer's Paradise (a.k.a. Las Vegas of Australia) for the weekend, I would have a free ticket to a dinner theatre called "Dracula". I would have to pay for my flights and accommodation....normally I wouldn't hesitate but the practical part of me is causing problems.

Unfortunately I have only worked one shift in the last two weeks and I would have to go into my Canadian savings to pay for the trip and my rent for the next week or two which makes me uncomfortable. I really don't know what to do....do I go to the stagette and "Scare myself Sexy" (stagette's theme) or do I stay in Perth and hope to get called for shifts....Help! What should I do?!?

My first post...

I feel nervous and excited about starting my own blog....I don't think I would have done this without the encouragement from my dear friend Jocelyn (She also gets credit for the name too)!

The purpose of my blog is to share my stories and pictures with friends and family back home. I hope to write a couple posts a week, depending on how exciting my life is for that particular week.

Enjoy!

Deidre

xoxoxoxo